| Adult Learners, Problem Children... PT 4
Adult Learners, Problem Children, and Your Role as
an Educator
by Valerie DeFrance, EMS
Educator
Problem
Child, Part Four of Five Dealing with Disruptive
Behaviors
This series has examined some general information about
adult learners, potential causes of their disruptive
behavior, and some solutions and techniques for dealing
with them. In this part, I describe more "problem
children" (as they are lovingly known), to add to
those already mentioned in previous columns. Each
specific example of disruptive behavior comes with real
life examples gathered from my own experiences and those
of my educator colleagues.
The focus on disruptive behavior exhibited in the
classroom in this series has been limited to a
behavioral sense. Problems caused by learning
disabilities, disorganized study habits, and like issues
are not addressed here.
There are many labels and details about students with
disruptive or negative behavior. Regardless of which
label is used to describe these students, some
commonalities exist. I have condensed information here
on behaviors that are similar, reveal themselves in much
the same manner, and have the same basic options for
handling.
Remember, in all cases of dealing with a problem
student, plan what you are going to say, and remain calm
as you say it.
More Specific Examples of Disruptive Behaviors
Emotional students
We have all probably witnessed the tears over a quiz
score, the self-anger at not passing a trauma assessment
station, and the frustrated or woeful, "I can’t
do this!" of emotionally charged students. These
people often respond well when you calmly root out
solutions to the learning barriers that are frustrating
them and impeding their progress. Do not become
emotional yourself. Maintain a tactful, businesslike
tone. Do not raise your voice or be afraid to send the
student out of the room until he or she can speak with
you in a more controlled fashion.
Blackmailers and manipulators
Usually viewed as challenging and more difficult to
manage, these students attempt to use emotional
blackmail and/or manipulative behavior. Let me emphasize
that these are not the students who deserve your
empathy. Note: Students who truly have personal problems
may need to be advised to drop the course and
participate when they have a more stable personal life.
Manipulative students may be trying to deflect their own
lack of educational responsibility or seeking special
treatment. They sometimes pit one instructor against
another; so ask other instructors if there is any truth
in what a student has relayed to you. Frequent meetings
with other staff, with frank discussions about such
students, can help keep the staff united in efforts to
deal with manipulative behavior. When a student is
caught relaying untruths, get the instructors to meet
with and confront the student.
Real life example
In one course, "Amy" told my co-instructor
that I had said she had permission to leave 30 minutes
early each class. Further, I would help her make up
the lost time. My co-instructor called me at home on
the first break and asked about this. We decided to
approach the student together, so that there could be
no misunderstanding or further manipulation about
this. A united and immediate front also served as a
subtle notice that she could not be manipulative and
expect to get away with it. Amy tried to claim a
misunderstanding. "I was just asking about it,
not really trying to get permission," she said,
so she was also informed in writing that should she be
caught telling any lie she would be immediately
dismissed.
Emotional blackmailers are students who use their
supposed personal problems with others (such as
spouse/significant others, child(ren), bosses, etc.) as
an excuse for not performing. They appeal to you with
tears, anger, sadness, or other emotional states that
are supposedly visited upon them by no fault of their
own.
Do not buy into it. You are not a confessional, personal
advisor, or close friend. Do not allow them to
continually provide blow-by-blow accounts of personal
problems. Express empathy, but immediately move on to
discuss solutions to the performance problems.
Clearly establish ground rules. Reiterate verbally and
in writing what they must do to pass. Watch them
closely. Do not give any leeway whatsoever, since people
like this tend to take advantage of any display of
weakness or failing on your part to hold them to the
standard. Document all problems, comments, and actions.
(This is always a good idea with any problem child.) I
am even considering taping these types of conversations.
If available, use a form that tracks affective domain
and includes criteria and scoring for attitude; this can
be extremely helpful. I find these students are apt to
threaten bringing a lawsuit against you, but rarely
carry through.
Real life example
It is amazing what lengths some people will take to
place blame for non-performance on you, rather than
simply taking responsibility. One student had used up
all the standard emotional blackmail ploys, then
reverted to using the "because I have made you
privy to my personal problems, you are now
discriminating against me" tactic. His premise
was that, during medical and trauma assessments, I was
making it exceptionally difficult to pass by providing
outlandish scenarios. Initially, I sought a solution
by letting him remain in the room as an observer while
another student performed assessments using the same
scenarios. When this did not work, I called in another
instructor to evaluate his skills. After poorly
performing for the other instructor, the student
delivered the same sob stories. Then he claimed that
it was an instructor conspiracy to fail him. In the
end I offered to let him choose any qualified
instructor in our state to do an independent review
and assessment of skills. He never acted upon the
offer. I also maintained written documentation and
wrote a letter to my supervisor outlining the
student’s difficulties, what I had done to try to
find resolution, and the outcome, in case it went any
further or ended up in court.
Overt hostility/resistance
These students are angry and belligerent. They display
combative or challenging behavior. It may be generated
out of a simple instructor/student personality conflict.
It may be because they are forced by employers to take
the course, and may have the additional stress of
fearing they will not pass and thus lose their jobs. In
college courses, it may be that they wanted the
"easy" credits and now resent the amount of
time and effort it takes. Sometimes they just hate the
world in general.
Students like this may challenge your authority to
instruct or "judge" how well they perform.
They have some of the same qualities as the Sharpshooter
(see below). Many times, hostile behavior is a defense
to cover up fears of inability to perform. For some,
fear stems not from the inability to learn, but from not
taking time to study. Thus, this behavior can become a
smokescreen for irresponsible study habits.
If possible, help the fearful by working with them
slowly. Assure them that they can do this if they so
desire and are willing to work for it. Remain calm and
polite, keeping your temper in check. Avoid disagreeing.
Build on what has been said. Give praise when they
progress.
Outright hostility is difficult when it is personality
based, because no one is going to change his or her
personality. Hostility directed toward you for what an
employer has demanded is likewise difficult. Remind
students what the goals are and how they can accomplish
the objectives regardless of how they feel about you or
their employer. Physically moving closer to the hostile
person and maintaining eye contact will usually make
them back off. Restate what you think they have said,
and try to allow them a way to back out of the nasty
confrontation or situation they have created.
Some hostility can be defused by making it impersonal.
Ask other students whether they feel that same anger or
frustration. Ask hostile students what solutions they
see. Many times, they weaken their own position — or
peers point out the weakness of the argument. Other
ideas include ignoring hostile behavior or talking with
hostile students privately during a break. As a last
resort, privately ask the individual to leave class for
the good of the group, taking care to guard your
personal safety.
Violent behavior can never be tolerated. It is cause for
immediate dismissal. Again, guard your personal safety.
Never be afraid to call in law enforcement or seek
restraining orders.
Real life example
From the outset, one student was nonchalant about his
performance. Like many other university students, he
took the course for the six credits with no intention
of ever performing in the field. He squeaked by with a
B grade on the written sections. He continually
challenged quiz questions he got incorrect and my
ability to gauge how well he was doing on skills. Most
complaints and arguments were regarding medical and
trauma assessments with injury/illness variables. His
final grade was adjusted downward, since he was barely
able to adequately perform all skills. (All students
are told on the first day that grades are adjusted in
this manner.) His final grade was a C. He knew what
grade would be submitted to the university on the last
day of class. He did not take the opportunity offered
to all students to discuss the grade with me.
A week later I received a copy of a letter he had
written to the dean protesting the grade. He claimed I
should not have the authority to lower his grade based
on skill performance. His premise was that no one
could objectively assess this component and assign a
grade to it. There was also a reference to the
"instructor not liking him since the first day of
class." In reply, I described my right to make
this grade adjustment, using the skill sheets, state
and national requirements, and policies reflecting the
importance of the skill performance for certification
as justification for the skill grading component. I
also stated my extensive background in teaching this
course, years of EMS responding, and my confidence in
my ability to fairly gauge and grade this component. I
also offered the student the opportunity to have his
skills assessed by another instructor, which he flatly
declined. The grade stood. I later discovered that
this student needed a "B" grade to keep his
grade point average and scholarship funds.
Again, keep good documentation on how well students
perform in all aspects of the course: grade books and
notations on skill sheets on performance, attempts at
passing skills, and student attitude by using a form
for affective domain.
In another case, a group of six students was forced by
an employer to take the course. Rampant hostility was
evident from the first moment of class. Students
loudly expressed their disgust, whined and griped, and
then used passive-aggressive behavior to refuse to
participate in skills. After many interruptions, I
called the class to a halt. They were all firmly but
politely told that while I could empathize with their
plight, the disruptions had to stop immediately. I
reminded them that we all had a job to do, unpleasant
or not, and I intended to do mine. The negative
comments and behavior were significantly reduced. Only
one student persisted in hostile and non-participating
behavior and failed the course. The failed student
made personal threats, causing me to seek law
enforcement assistance. The employer allowed the
student to take another course. One can only hope he
was more cooperative (and never touches a real
patient).
Sharpshooter
students
Sharpshooters are also known as "know it alls"
or "negatively motivated challenger" students.
They are easy to detest. Sharpshooters try to shoot you
down, show you up, or trip you up. When held
accountable, they may revert to heckling or making
personal attacks. Many times, they are current or former
EMTs (or even EMT instructors) in continuing education
classes. They feel smarter than you. A few may very well
be, so do not underestimate them. They usually have
over-inflated egos, an unrealistic sense of
self-importance, and a need to publicly demonstrate
their presumed superiority. Some sharpshooters work
bluntly out in the open. Others lurk behind the scenes
and attempt to hold their own mini-classes in the
corner, away from your eyes and ears. Sharpshooters are
very good at picking out a vulnerable student who then
becomes a devoted follower, hanging on to the
sharpshooter’s every word.
Both students and instructors have an extremely low
tolerance for sharpshooter behavior. They can "get
to us" when nothing else can. Other students
sometimes catch on quickly to the sharpshooter and ask
them to stop — sometimes even bluntly telling them to
"shut up!" The majority refuses to be part of
the mini-classes. There is little you can do about
followers, except to clarify that you are the instructor
who is teaching what will appear on tests. Never waste
time trying to get followers back on "your
side." They will either wise up on their own — or
not.
The best preparation for dealing with sharpshooters is
to be sure that you know the material well and have
confidence in your knowledge. When a sharpshooter openly
attempts to trip you up or make you look stupid, admit
it if you do not know the answer and redirect the
question to the group or the individual who asked it.
Acknowledge that this is a joint learning experience. In
cases where sharpshooters persist or refuse to
acknowledge that they are incorrect, suggest that they
research and document the particulars to back up their
claims or disprove you outside of classroom hours and
turn in the information for you to look over. Do not
employ this tactic more than a few times, since it may
encourage them because it gains them the focus of
attention. (It also takes time for you to slog through
the submitted documentation.)
If questions or comments continue to be inappropriate,
simply refuse to answer or allow discussion, stating it
is beyond the scope of the class. Then move on. (This is
not the same as one or two questions from a student who
inadvertently has gone beyond the scope or is truly
curious above and beyond. These students usually deserve
an answer, although it may be at break or after class.)
If all else fails, educators recommend you try to flat
out ignore the behavior.
Real life example
A student going through the paramedic course for the
second time already had a limited knowledge base in
some areas. (It was obviously not good enough, or he
would have passed the first time.) He brought up
obscure facts in the form of a question, to see if the
instructor knew the answer. It was like being quizzed
every day. He'd ask things like, "How much
percentage of body water is found in bone?" when
the class discussed fluid compartments in the body and
water percentages. When he asked, "What is the
number of basophils vs. neutrophils in the body when
you are talking about WBCs?" he was told that the
instructor couldn't answer that question. He got a
gleam in his eye like he had finally caught her. Then
she said, "It all depends on whether the patient
has had a recent or recurrent infection, body
temperature, and metabolic rate at the time. How old
is the patient? Any other disease processes?" He
stopped that line of questioning in a hurry!
The instructor relayed that most of the time this
student would back down if she answered his question
with another question, or asked him to clarify or get
more information. It worked well even when she didn't
know the answer, because when it was turned back on
him to provide answers he didn't know, it made him
look stupid. She added that he didn't last long and
eventually flunked out.
Next month, the conclusion of Valerie’s five-part
series will bring two more problem behaviors, what to do
about them, and some concluding remarks.
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